Perfect

Do you believe that there's a perfect mate for everyone? A soulmate, a perfect match... your dream partner. Someone who embodies every trait that you find desirable. Is that really, truly possible? A very wise man once told me that if you love someone enough, then you make it work. You embrace your differences and evolve.

I don't think there realistically can be soulmates. Think for a second of all the qualities that you look for when dating someone. I know my list is pretty eclectic (includes sword fighting, cars and a vast knowledge of music). Then, let's just say your personalities are completely in sync, and you share that same hobbies, then comes the sexual compatibility. What if you enjoy completely different things when it comes it sex? While yes, you can compromise... can either partner truly be satisfied if they are holding back in order to satisfy their partner? If one likes it rough (I'm talking REALLY rough) and the other shys away from that, how can either be satisfied? Someone can seem perfect (good personality, good looks, similar interests) but you never know what you're going to get when you delve deep into their, ahem, package. It's not like we come with ingredient labels, sometimes what you see is not always what you get.

Maybe I'm jaded. I don't have all the answers. The whole dating world is a big mystery to me.

Welcome to my Existence

Hi! For those of you who don't know me, my name is Jen. I'm 26 and single for the first time practically ever. It's both liberating and scary. I'm also living alone for the first time ever. I suppose part of growing up IS doing things on your own, embarking on your own adventure, if you will.

I deliberated long and hard about this blog (no pun intended...). First off was the title. I wanted something with meaning, but also something that grabs the reader. This blog will mostly be about passion, sex and love... but I'm sure I'll go off topic. I toyed around with 'Confessions of a Sexaholic' (hmm... not really, just enjoy talking about it), 'A Lover's Tale' (too much like a romance novel), 'Face Down, Ass Up' (I need to stop listening to 2 Live Crew). I decided on 'A Passionate Existence' because really, what is life without passion? Whether it be sexual passion, the passion of pure love, a passionate hobby or career, or just something that you hold a special interest in. Let's face it: life can get pretty mundane at times. But you use your own passion to makes things more enjoyable.

With this in mind, I'd like you to think about what you're passion is. I love helping others feel comfortable in their own skin, with their bodies and with their lovers. I love happiness, and when I can help others around me be happy. And yes, I love passion... the physical, emotional and mental.

**Love Life**

Jen

p.s. Anything written in this blog is purely opinion, and should be taken as such.